my hair and i have a very complicated relationship </3
Honey, listen to me. Your safeword is NOT a privilege. It is a right. It’s the BDSM equivalent of a tap out. If you say it, the fights over. I would say that your Dom is a very dangerous person, you need to step away from him and whatever the hell he’s doing and take a little time to find yourself again.
First and foremost, you are a couple. After that comes the kink and the play. You are an adult with thoughts, feelings and emotions that deserve to be taken into account. What he did was unforgivable.
Even if he’d made a bad judgement call and decided to bring a girl home without consulting you properly, the minute he saw that you were upset he should have sent the girl away, taken you in his arms and tried to make it right again. He didn’t. He was selfish and thought about getting his dick wet more than he did about you.
Polyamory is a beautiful thing. But only when all parties are informed and consenting to it.
This man is not a Dom. Any man (or woman) who thinks that a safeword is a sub’s privilege is bad news and you should stay away. Please be safe.
Drop his ass like a fucking HOT PLATE
This is not a Dom, this is an abuser flat out point blank period. Cut his ass loose as soon and as safely as you can.
Yup, that safe word bit is highly concerning.
Just woke up look is this holla
Word - I would rather be laughed at 1000 times than never say what I really meant to keep people happy.
This makes me unbelievably happy. I may not be Catholic but seeing that the pope is the religious leader of millions of people, his example may lead to many people thinking about their own actions.
Im proud to be Argentinianllike him :3 we are good people
Well, well….theres a bit of faith back in the Church after all these years.